Do you have someone on a pedestal?
When you take someone off the pedestal the power roles cease to exist and you exist in unity.
When you have someone on a pedestal you give away your power and become a puppet bowing to their every need, you resonate so deeply with what they say, you forget who you are to an extent.
You don't mean to do it, you just do.
You admire them, look up to them, want to be like them - which is fine - they have amazing qualities - yet, they are just reflecting WHO YOU ARE.
And this is why this power reversal happens...
This is why we lose ourselves in relationships at times...
The wake up to this can be heartbreaking and gut-wrenching and anger and more will flood to the surface when 'reality hits'.
You may step into blame, projection and more, because you are simply - hurt.