I am surprised the amount of times I have people contact me and say they have been threatened that ‘something bad will happen to them’ if they don’t book into the persons coaching/healing program.
This is spiritual narcissism at best but ultimately? It’s domestic violence and harassment. Threatening someone to enter your program?
If you have to coerce and threaten your clients into purchasing anything from you let alone your programs then there is something blatantly wrong with this situation. I don’t like using the term wrong but when domestic violence is involved no, just NO
#1 - do you really want clients that you have to threaten and coerce into your programs?
#2 - who even does that shit?!
#3 - what sort of program do you even offer that involves threats and coercion in the first place?
#4 - what sort of people are these telling people that something bad is going to happen to them if they don’t?! Gah WTF!
We are supposed to be...
I had been looking for safety in trying to find a man... I had been looking for safety in a relationship...
I have realised this past few weeks with the HUGE shift out of my bones that I had recently...
It dawned on me this last few days...
Back in 2016, when I began online, I went through one of the final relationship break ups with my on and off ex of 5 years.
After this, I felt.. lost reflecting on it.
For the next 2 years, I jumped from relationship to relationship - which, if I looked with my wisdom eyes now - I should've been dating (that doesn't mean se. x - dating for me, is going out for dinner or other activities to get to know someone - which maybe, is normal for you, but something I have had to learn at this point in the game) however, back then, I would be 100% IN, committed, it's us, what are you talking about? Done, sorted - forever!
And gosh, what a whirlwind, heartbreak and dissolving of myself, losing myself one could say and... just...
It's not a matter of IF or HOPE - it is a matter of CHOOSING it to be this way.
It seems that so many client conversations in this last week I kept sharing the same advice - it isn't a matter of IF or HOPE - but you have to choose that it will be successful and there is no other way!
It isn't easy stepping out of the norm and following your Heart and Soul's Passion - but when you KNOW there is no other option (well of course there is right?!) - but you CHOOSE no other option than to MAKE it work - you make it happen - NO MATTER WHAT!
In the start and at times along the journey - usually every time you up-level:
You WILL come across naysayers that talk you out of your dreams. Walk away from them and don't share your dreams with them.
You WILL come across people who tear you down because of the way you are living your life. Walk away from them and don't connect with them.
You WILL encounter tough times, hard situations that make you question and doubt EVERYTHING...