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Release Yourself From Restrictive Blocks In Your Reality

It was never about them anyway...

"Oh my god I can't believe they did this/said that/how can they have/why did they...."

Whatever is turning up in your reality is 100% your responsibility.

It doesn't matter what 'they' did, what 'they' said, what anyone thinks, does or speaks... because on some level, it is your responsibility.

In a sense that, if you are truly the creator of your own reality = that means that EVERYTHING that is showing up is in some way shape or form, something you brought into your reality through your consciousness on some level.

Why? 

It is bringing a deeper conscious awareness of yourself, that is all. It is helping you to become more conscious of yourself. 

EVERYTHING IS A MIRROR AND A REFLECTION. 

Notice most, what you are talking about, preaching about - having a reaction about with other people and what  'is on your mind about what they said' - your conscious awareness is...

Loving Your Ego to Death... that moment that changes it all...

I cringe so much when I hear people saying 'get rid of your ego' 'kill your ego' 'ignore your ego' and the like...

Whilst this sort of language at times can be helpful when you need strong loving boundaries to get out of a situation, but to have a deep seated belief that you need to rid your ego long term, feels like utter hatred, hurtful and is only feeding the negative energy on the planet.

And yes, our Ego can be negative and nasty... yet, so are aspects of our shadow... and to me, there is no difference here.... ego and shadow are same..they are different aspects that make up our psyche - just like ANY emotion you feel, they are different parts of your psyche - of your consciousness. That's all. 

Labels are good for helping to understand and decipher information. 

Then your next stage of evolution and dissolving all barriers to your manifestation abilities and your ability to BECOME THE LIGHT THAT YOU ARE -...

5 Powerful but Simple Steps to keep your energy high, your focus attuned and your life on track...

1. When you get a thought or idea - do not doubt it. Just do it. Think about it later. If you are unsure, look for the signs, notice what you keep thinking about and...
2. If it is in your energy field - you need to do something about it. Sometimes meditations are NOT ENOUGH to protect your field. If someone is in their emotional stuff, sometimes we need to take other action if they are not listening to your words. We live in a physical world. Physical boundaries, like house fences or Domestic Violence Orders, Parenting Orders, Legal Agreements are needed to protect us. 'Words are powerful, but actions are louder.' If you need to go through some sort of Court process, I always say to my clients, that yeah it is hell and fucked and shit to go through, yet - the sense of Freedom you feel when that document is stamped and in place - is something I cannot describe and you only understand once...

It's more than likely it will happen. The question is, are you going to let it stop you?

When you step into your power, own who you are without apology, speak your truth - compassionately and kindly, follow your Heart - it is more than likely that people will leave your life. Either quietly, or loudly. The question is - is your Heart pull to your calling, to your Life Purpose, to your destiny louder and stronger, than the people around you, even those you're closest to?

Some people will call you crazy for having such big ideals.

Some people will tell you it's not a good idea (important: don't take advice from those who haven't done what you're doing or thinking about doing, the thing you cannot not do - like you just HAVE to do the thing).

Some people will bitch about you behind your back (which is just them wishing they had the courage to follow their own dreams, like you are).

Some people will give you ultimatums so that you stay in their life. ('If you do that thing, I can't be...

I know that my relationships 'failed' in the past, because I 'fell for their potential' not the current reality of who they were. 

Due to this, I found myself always ‘nit picking’ what was wrong with them, what they weren’t doing right, how they weren’t stepping up and… the list goes on.

This, was only reflecting me not owning and living, my own potential that I was seeing in them.

I was nit picking my own self - because I didn’t listen to my intuition from the start to not walk any further down this road with them. But all my fears of ‘this is all there is’ ‘they love me, why should I walk away’ - yet, what I learnt, is no matter how shiny it is on the outside, if my intuition is telling me no - I need to not only listen, but act on it. 

Because I didn’t act on what my intuition was guiding me to do, I felt angry, agitated and anxious 99% of the time, there was an underlying unsettled feeling, that they...

I FORGET IT AFFECTS ME TOO

Sounds silly right? Yet, I do. 

Right now, we are in this portal that I keep talking about. If you look back over the years, this time of year is always quite.... shedding one could say. 

It is when we are either going into a caterpillar cocoon into the darkness - or are the seed in the darkness of the soil that we don't realise is a seed about to hit the surface and feel the light again... 

OR

We are coming out of the cocoon already, or we've already broken the surface of the soil and are feeling the light again. 

I will keep reminding you that we are in this portal of Halloween/Samhain - this is the marking point of heading into the dark winter... in the Northern Hemisphere of course. 

Then, on top of that, we are heading into Scorpio... one of the darkest Astrological signs for the simple fact that it is DEEP, dark, mysterious and mighty sensual. 

Many are experiencing right now: 

• depression
• a loss of motivation,...