The concept of letting my child do what she wants when she wants seems radically outrageous....
Yet, any new concept can bring about the same reaction...
The same reaction to a new person that is... the concept of letting a child do what they want when they want, isn't actually that new...
When Adaya was capable of pointing at things, I let her choose her own clothes.
"Oh my! That is outrageous! Why would you let a child wear what they want?! They need to wear the pretty little dress I bought for her before she grows out of it. She doesn't know what she wants. Force her into this." #myth
#truth: Babies and children understand what we are saying, long before they can talk properly. When Adaya was less than 2 years old and not talking, it used to be common occurrence that I would pull out the most beautiful dresses or skirt and top that she had, that her Dad had bought her top label, and she would shake her head strongly saying no and I would say, "Well what do you...
Some people don’t know I have a daughter. Her father lives in New Zealand and before world stuff happened, she would fly to see him for a month or so at time. She is almost 13. I have homeschooled her since she was 4. I rarely speak or post about her these days due to her request.
Between 7-8, was a significant shift in being ‘out in the world’ to being ‘inside in her world’. At 7-8 hormones kick in and…. She isn’t my little girl anymore. She is a tween and… is more like a teen.
I have been treating her as such and respecting her wishes. We used to share so much of ‘us’ together on social media when she was younger, but not anymore. I would much rather respected honour her feelings that plaster her against her wishes - into ANYTHING she doesn’t want to do.
If we can not respect our children’s ‘simple’ wishes - how can they say no to authority when they are...
You sat there waiting, watching and wishing it would happen. You forgot who you ARE.
And then you remembered and a FIRE washed over the ENTIRE Earth.
It burnt through the very beings that were holding you back, that were dark, that latched on to your dear life and sucking your soul dry leaving you with no motivation, nothing good to say and just plain down in the dumps.
Your SOUL FIRE returned in the blink of an eye with the depth of clarity that you have seen since your Soul began at Consciousness of itself.
You remembered who you are a blink in the etches of time whilst you are all of time itself.
You came here to remember yourself.
You came here to help others remember themselves.
You came here to ignite a movement on this earth.
One of Consciousness.
One of Love.
One of Heart.
One of remembering everything that they made you forget.
That they made…. Humanity forget.
But you haven’t.
I released a parasitic entity this week that took me to depths I haven’t been in a long, long time. It threw me for six, took me under a bus and back and made me wonder… many things.
We spoke deeply in Transcendence Reality Society yesterday in our Hot Seat Mentoring about the world stuff demons and updates, energy updates, earth quakes, solar flares, combined with our own demons, the parasitic energetic forces deeply taking Lightworker’s down and we all realised how powerful a tribe we have become - all walking in a depth of integrity and truth with our Heart and Soul’s callings, that I have not seen anywhere else. My heart has blown open wider than ever before with Transcendence Reality Society Tribe, it truly is transcending magic in there! So so grateful. (Doors are open until this current Friday, still time to join us!)
The parasitic demonic entity… became apparent to me, when I ‘fell’. On Thursday afternoon I was holding...
It's not about what you're walking away from, but what you're walking towards.
Sometimes, you don't even realise how much something has been holding you back, until you LET GO.
Until the last threads snap and you drop what you were clinging onto out of fear, because you never knew any other option... until now.
You knew there were things you wanted, can see and have always known true to be in your vision, and yet, you stayed.. because... who knows why you stayed.
At the end, you look back now and think 'Wah, what on EARTH was I staying for??'
Maybe you thought it was the right thing.
Maybe you weren't ready.
Maybe you didn't even know you were holding onto something that disintegrated years ago.
But you kept trying.
It isn't about what you're walking away from.
Or trying to fix. Or were trying to fix.
It is simply that you turning your focus to where you are going, where your HEART is guiding you, where...
Your Purpose work will call you to do things, you don’t want to do.
It will call you to things you don’t feel like doing.
However, it is always calling you to the most fastest path, the most aligned path - for your dedicated Life Purpose Path.
Are you listening?
You might not WANT to do some of the things.
You might have fear about doing certain things or worry ‘but how?’
Yet, the secret is - to do it anyway.
Things are always hardest in the start - but then they become easier.
Starting a new routine of ANY kind is hard, lots of resistance and then you just get it done.
Set a timer and just do that amount. Sometimes, you will want to do more. Sometimes you will stop when the timer goes off. You will feel better throughout your day - because you DID it.
You did what your Soul was calling you to do, get done, be and more.
Do the hardest task first thing in the morning - then your day will feel light...
It's okay to say no.
It's okay to change your mind.
It's okay to be ahead of your time.
It's okay that people don't understand you. Or won't.
It's okay that you realise that living on 250 acres isn't a suitable environment and you'd prefer sharks, dolphins and humans than red belly black snakes, ticks and dust as your friends.
It's okay to realise the truth of who you are and take action accordingly.
It's okay to ask for what you REALLY want and not settle for anything less.
It's okay to lock yourself away, block out the world and get your purpose work done.
It's okay to trust your intuition on how to do business, what choices to make, how to create your content and how to manage your finances.
It's okay to howl your eyes out about the fact you have not been listening to your intuition; let people's ideas get stuck in your head so much you forgot who the fuck you were; realise that everything in your life to date has been created...
"There are lands in which we are born into… lands from which we came. Lands that we think we own, or that they stole or lied to us or this story or that story is truth…
My heart breaks seeing the destructive warfare rife in the negation of anyone’s opinion and shutting down of that mouthless whore.
The lands were taken, stolen, destruction lays bane…
And yet, we’re fighting in the wrong direction.
Pulling and picking apart each other’s words, telling everyone they’re convicts and it’s time to leave the lands…
And yet, the focus on the history is what is keeping us bound…
Time is not linear and when the word is spoken, undertones rumble Home…. the Earth shakes as words speak and destruction is at core.
There never will be a time in history that is the crux turning point….for its rolling ethers as day rolls into night, months into years.... time as the destructive force drives right along side the...
So. Much. Peace.
A huge comparison where I was this time last year, the year before, or every year prior.
I never used to do anything for my birthday. I even worked it this last few years. I have CHOSEN to make my birthday beautiful over these last few years. Yes, you can wish me Happy Birthday now
I used to get disappointed, waiting for people to step up to the plate to make it a beautiful birthday for me - which you can imagine, never happened. Over the recent years, I have chosen to make my birthday special, for me, to me, all about me. Taking radical responsibility for me and what I WANT.
This last 9 months, I have been dedicated to taking time for myself and actually letting myself be comfortable in the space, I have chosen - to take time out from my work schedule. I have chosen to have time. I know it might be a no brainer for some. But after the last few years of go go go (which I still LOVE) I have learnt to have space - within the GO and I love this...