You’re not too picky - it’s call STANDARDS babe.

You’re not too picky - it’s call STANDARDS babe.

They said I had low standards.

And yet, I choose to be single because I HAVE HIGH STANDARDS. Heck, I even got a ‘ring’ tattooed on my finger AND still broke it off - why? Because no dreams, goals or future that is fantasied about is worth abandoning my values for.

If you’ve ever stayed longer than you should’ve hoping they’d change, hoping the dream would match the reality then you know exactly what I mean.

I see many stay in relationships because of the brand, the house or the identity they built as a couple because they are afraid of the fallout. Well, shit happens and life continues. It’s a story - make it a good one.

But I would rather walk away and stay in my integrity than stay for a picture perfect lie.

Luckily the vision for the ring tattoo came to me in my shower, on my own and what it represents says so much about what the entire experience was all about. It was about reclaiming me - no one else. Reclaiming myself from the dungeons apparently. (Phew. That’s a long story for another day.)

I’ll probably get it removed one day, but living in the country is a bit more of a mission amongst everything else as a single mother and it’s not at the top of my priority list this moment. For now, it is a strong reminder of just how much I choose myself, my standards and the love I know I deserve.

Because sometimes, the wildest proof of self-love isn’t just leaving - it’s staying left. Even when it’s uncomfortable. Even when you could’ve gone back.

I would rather wear shit like that - than stay in partnership that looks conscious on the outside but feels disconnected behind the scenes. Anyone who openly declares that they now have an open relationship are really saying - we’ve built a business together and can’t destroy that - they are not being radically honest with themselves, god and others. Divine Step #1 in the 12 Divine Steps to Awakening Your Life Purpose is Honesty. With Self, With God and With Others.

And if you’ve ever felt that split between what people see and what you live you’re not crazy. You’re just waking up to the difference between curated love and conscious love.

When love for validation and likes is praised as evolved you start to question what, as a society we’ve made normal. Geezus, it’s wild out there. Stay grounded guys. Luckily.. society is waking up and seeing through the bullshit.. you can smell it a mile away..

So anyone who comes at me, telling me I have low standards - well I say good riddance to you. I have only been single for the last 17 years raising my daughter on my own, but yeah, low standards mate. Sure I have had short flings I will call them, but I have never lived with anyone except for my daughter.. so single to me that feels. Priorities, is what I call that. Absolute devotion to being the best mother I could be.

I have really high standards - many would say too high.

That I just need to settle. That “It’s not my problem you are single,” as if I should give up my career, settle into a relationship and live like ‘normal’ people.

But I am not here for normal. I have chosen to be single because I know exactly what I bring to the table.

I tell men straight up - ‘I expect you to pay for coffee and food, I am not paying.’ - and I don’t hear from them. Perfect. Saves a lot of the most valuable asset there is - time.

No matter how much I earn, there is no way I will ‘pay half’ or pay for dinner on dates. I don’t want a roommate. If as a man, you cannot provide, I am not interested. I do all that on my own - I have a mission to live. If all you’re brining to the table is what I am carrying alone - I’ll keep building my empire myself, thanks.

Because choosing peace, choosing truth, choosing your mission over a mediocre “maybe” - that’s sacred and must be protected. That’s not standards too high. That’s remembering what you’re worth.

If that means I am single forever? Then so be it. Because my life is heart-led fulfilled, rich, real and lived on purpose.

I’ve learnt to be discerning because I have gone from the ‘healer in relationship’ to a lot of men coming to me, looking for their purpose disguised as a relationship. It’s subtle, sneaky and they seem on purpose - but they are deeply lost. What they really need is my trust your intuition course that allows them to uncover their own unique purpose - not me and my heart to be trodden on and I won’t make that mistake again.

I trust you won’t either.

Love, Hannah
The Life Purpose Queen 👑

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