You didn’t break the family. Or the friendship. Or the relationship. Or the career path.
May 11, 2025
You didn’t break the family.
Or the friendship.
Or the relationship.
Or the career path.
You just stopped betraying yourself to belong in it.
At first, it felt like grief.
Like devastation.
Like “what just happened?”
You spoke up - and got silence.
You told the truth - and got cut off.
You brought your light - and it triggered their shadows.
You shared your joy - and they changed the subject.
You opened up - and they left you on read.
You set a boundary - and got labeled too sensitive.
You told the truth - and they called it drama.
You brought your consciousness light - and suddenly you were “too much,” “too intense,” “too spiritual.”
They didn’t leave because you changed.
They backed away because you stopped shrinking.
And now you’re sitting in the space where their roles no longer fit…
But your new ones haven’t landed yet.
This is what most people mistake for regression.
It’s not.
This is sacred disconnection.
A soul-level cutoff that says:
✨ I’m no longer the one who texts first just to keep the thread alive.
✨ I’m no longer over-explaining my boundaries to avoid being called dramatic.
✨ I’m no longer dimming what I see - so they can keep pretending they don’t.
✨ I’m not holding back the hard truth to protect their comfort.
✨ I’m not agreeing just to avoid the sigh, the silence, the shift in tone.
✨ I’m not cleaning up emotional messes I didn’t cause - just so no one calls me difficult.
You’re not sad because it failed.
You’re grieving because the part of you that kept making it work finally stopped.
The girl who kept passing the emotional glue around the table - just put it down.
You didn’t lose them.
You found you.
And yes - there will be days you question yourself.
You’ll hear echoes of their words in your mind.
You’ll replay the last message.
You’ll feel the ache in your chest and think:
“Maybe it’s me.”
It’s not.
That ache isn’t guilt.
It’s your body releasing the survival contract you signed to stay digestible.
This is what it looks like when a woman ends the war within herself -
Even if it costs her the version of love she grew up calling home.
You didn’t lose them. You found you.
You walked yourself home without anyone clapping.
You didn’t fail. You freed yourself. And that is holy.
✨ This is where the true work begins.
Not rebranding your pain. Not bypassing your truth.
But learning to trust the power you spent a lifetime shrinking.
Trust Your Intuition™ is the space where your nervous system learns to feel safe with your gifts again.
And your Soul - finally takes the lead.
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Love, Hannah
The Life Purpose Queen 👑