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THE UNPLANNED PREGNANCY WOUND

Let's say you are in a relationship, or you begin sleeping with someone and think that this is a relationship that you can continue. Then.. you feel it isn't right anymore. You break up. Then, you are drawn back together. You know it isn't right to be together, but you do it anyway, against your intuition. Next thing you know - you're pregnant. FUCK. Right?

I have been deeply called to speak to this VERY common topic, that no one seems to think of, address or dive deep into healing. 

Yet, unplanned pregnancies are a VERY frequent occurence. 

Whilst MANY choose to keep their child and love their child to bits of course - if the initial 'shock' of an unplanned pregnancy is not dealt with, faced and dived deep into the emotions that come from that - they can manifest in MANY ways as you grow with your child through the years. 

These 'symptoms' that are commonly linked back to THE UNPLANNED PREGNANCY WOUND manifest as: 

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I just wouldn't even go there now... 

Yet, if I didn't learn what I did back then, if it didn't destroy me back then... well, I know it would've come forth at some point in my lifetime and I am grateful that it did, when it did and... I even feel nervous sharing this. 

I also know, that all my experiences have led me to this place now, to have this acute understanding of relationship dynamics, of energetic understanding and for that? Well, I guess the pain was kinda worth it! 

When I was fumbling my way around, fumbling my way in the early days of building my business online, this July, marking 4 years from the very moment I opened the online course program I had bought to teach myself how to do it... there was, a lot of... fumbling around... not even, in the online gig scene. 

This was... fumbling around in relationships! 

I JUST WOULDN'T..... 

I see now? That this entire journey online? Has been my journey through Healing My Inner Masculine. 

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Empaths & Healers Attracting Partners Who Are Not 100% Committed Or Still Attached to Someone Else. 

I found working clients over the years and with my own patterns - this thing with Healers & Empaths in particular who attract men (yes, I am speaking from a woman to a man, so if you are a man, obviously change the words to suit.. or not)... attract men who are still in relationship to their ex, perhaps they say they are not and so you move forward in a relationship with them.

But over time, the things don't seem to add up, and then you realise ‍‍‍Why did this happen again?!

Why am I continually attracting men who in a single breath jump back with their ex and their kids?!

Why am I only attracting men who are still married even?!!?

Why am I continually attracting men who I only hear from every several months or every year, when they have broken up with their girlfriend, or are fighting with their Mrs and I believe their bullshit stories that they are...

"But, my Heart got it all wrong" - No, it didn't honey.. 

"Your Heart already knows, Trust it." 

I had many people comment and private message me the other day when I posted that quote, saying how much their Heart got it wrong, that they 'can never trust their Heart again, because it failed them' whether in relationships or some other choice they had to make - I am here to say to you, dear Soul, that no, your Heart didn't get it wrong. 

Most people get confused in their Heart. They feel confused, because they have been hurt, or betrayed in the past about what their Heart felt was right. 

And do you know what? I imagine at one moment in time, in that situation - your heart WAS right - but it never became wrong. 

Your Heart is ALWAYS leading you to the fastest route to your Life Purpose, to your Dreams, to your Desires. 

What happens, is that as soon as that direction changes within your Heart, let's talk relationship for example. 

There is a...

The Number 1 Reason Women Stop Trusting Their Men.....

You are not high maintenance.

You are not controlling.

You are not too emotional. 

You are not too much. 

You are not jealous. 

You are not anything they say you are. 

They are just not your men. #period

One could say you outgrew them rapidly. 

One could say you were there and then shifted and they didn't shift with you. 

One could say, you have been afraid of stepping into who you say you are really meant to be and the reality is that - that version of you? They are not your type anymore are they?! Nope! 

And you will never be satisfied because this internal longing for YOU to become who YOU are - will always be there... until you do. 

And then ultimate fulfilment and deep alignment to your Soul's Purpose is born - yes? 

But until then, do you know what happens? 

You stop trusting - them - out there - anyone! And especially the one closest to you - which is only an external...

FAILED RELATIONSHIP AFTER FAILED RELATIONSHIP AFTER FAILED RELATIONSHIP

I SPEAK A DIFFERENT LANGUAGE. Some will understand, some won’t.

Take me deep and take me slow, just don’t make me weep and leave me in a heap.

“I told you She’s the chosen One, and you didn’t believe me.”

I meant to write this blog on Monday, but our Grandmother Moon, had different plans of releasing for me on Monday before I held our powerful Online Full Moon Ceremony. So here it is now.

I have been increasingly frustrated recently with this thing that’s been bugging me. I’ve been noticing it quite a lot and to be honest it’s been in the forefront of my awareness since about the end of September. Yet, it started to be quite in my face in late June last year and only in the past few days, has it dawned on me and so many pieces of the puzzle have come together. Nothing like a Blood Full Moon Lunar Eclipse to catapult one of the biggest depth of learning for...