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The Most Common Question I Get Asked - How Do I Let It Go?

The most common question I get asked is how do I let it go? How do I let that issue go and let it not interfere in my present? And the other question I get asked is how do I let go of my past relationship? And I'm going to answer them both here, because they both have the same answer. In fact, what I am about to share, relates to letting go of anything from your past. Hurt, pain, the loss of a loved one - anything.

How I speak to this right now, will be relating to being able to let your past go so it doesn't interfere with your present.

I've spoken a lot recently about choices. Make a choice to let it go. Making a decision to not feel that way. Yet a huge reality for most people and what I struggled with for many years, is being able to fucking let shit go.

I would get hurt. Someone would say something or do something and I would hold onto it for MONTHS. Years even. And I did. And it almost killed me. Literally.

So many have been asking me lately and I even taught this in Calling...

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Suicide and the Empty Heart

Suicide and the Empty Heart

There has been alot about suicide coming to my awareness again recently, with celebrities and more and even though I have spoken to this in the past, I feel called to deeply share this here now. 

The thing with suicide is that one simply has lost Life Purpose. The Heart is completely shut down, there is a huge barrier and wall around ones Heart. The Heart is deeply connected to your Life Purpose. 

It's your desires, your joy, your fun, your LOVE - for self and others and life itself. 

When you shut down your Heart, that's done to protect oneself from future pain, but when you do this, it also blocks out any future love and care to come IN and THAT feels very isolating. It creates a big cold cave. 

Why does one shut down their Heart? Yes for protection - so you don't get hurt again right? This can stem from childhood or a relationship that wasn't very nice (or other things!)

What happens here, when you shut down your...

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It's okay to walk away without explanation...

It's okay to walk away without explanation...

It’s okay to say that’s not in alignment and continue on in the direction that is in alignment without giving a reason why...

You don’t need to explain yourself to anyone - especially those you are leaving in your past. 

You don’t need to explain why or how or anything.

Because usually, they won't hear it anyway. 

It is probably at a point, where you have grown so much that anything you say doesn't register or they aren't even interested in understanding your why. 

"People only understand to the level of their perception." (and it takes a skilled heart centred Healer to help people see another reality without powerful love )

Chrysocolla in The Liquid Crystals is awesome for this. Silence. When you know your whole truth, you come into a place where you don't even need to speak it to anyone. 

Your actions naturally become louder than words. 

You don't even try. 

It just is who you...

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Do you have someone on a pedestal? 💥❤️✨

Do you have someone on a pedestal?
 
Said with so much Love.
 
When you take someone off the pedestal the power roles cease to exist and you exist in unity.
 
When you have someone on a pedestal you give away your power and become a puppet bowing to their every need, you resonate so deeply with what they say, you forget who you are to an extent.
 
Why?
 
You don't mean to do it, you just do.
 
You admire them, look up to them, want to be like them - which is fine - they have amazing qualities - yet, they are just reflecting WHO YOU ARE.
 
And this is why this power reversal happens...
 
This is why we lose ourselves in relationships at times...
 
The wake up to this can be heartbreaking and gut-wrenching and anger and more will flood to the surface when 'reality hits'.
 
You may step into blame, projection and more, because you are simply - hurt.
 
The wake up from the...
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