Hannah's Blog
THE PAIN OF STAYING IN THE WRONG RELATIONSHIP IS GREATER THAN BEING ALONE
I have written before about how much credit I give to myself for being on my own rather than pursuing or staying in wrong relationships for the last few years.
Sure, I had my business and mumma life to my...
The biggest challenge I have had over the years on walking away from negative, toxic, unhealthy (so funny, it auto spelled to unearthy) relationships is that the space in between the bad shit and the good shit is definitely…. an adjustment.
There is a lot of loneliness in this space. ...
THIS IS WHY PEOPLE DON’T CARE ABOUT YOU
~ They have their own lives to live. People are busy.
~ They have their own shit to deal with. People don’t care about other people - because they have enough on their own plate to deal with in their own lives. Listening to your problems...
It's a fine line between 'drama' and having those mighty uncomfortable conversations.
I had an experience yesterday, where someone said to me "Usually I would walk away from this drama, but I am doing this to benefit you."
I replied with,
"Hmmm, yes, it is a fine line with the 'drama' and...
Something has massively shifted... when I love on myself, even when I don't look my what I feel is my best, I know I have changed. Raw. Real. Vulnerable. Radical. Unconditional Love.
When I can support myself in ways that nurture me, instead of beat up on me when I have had a massive week...
After yet ANOTHER devastating relationship break up I found myself hiding away, breaking down in tears and pretending nothing happened on the outside, when inside, I was dying.. another huge gaping hole in my heart.... wtf is actually wrong with me??
After several weeks of moping around, trying...
No filter required, because the clarity I feel with my new life is exactly this - clear and beautiful.
However, I found myself bawling my eyes out in deep, deep grief last night for over an hour.
It was deep, deep grief, and it surprised me what it dropped into.
My old house and...
"But I've spent thousands of dollars and it didn't work!"
"Not with me you haven't." I replied.
It doesn't matter if you spend a little or a lot...
What does matter - is the person who is holding the space for you to transform.
I have had many, many people over the years...