Boundaries, Empaths & Their Families
The hardest thing to do for a Highly Sensitive Empath is set boundaries - with their families!
Of course, setting boundaries to start with at all is tricky, feels uncomfortable and not normal!
However, the hardest thing a highly sensitive empath that is breaking the chain of abuse, emotional turmoil and the generational patterns of everything that hasn't been in true alignment - is setting boundaries with the ones they love!
Now, you might think, 'Oh, I actually don't love them anymore with how much they have hurt me! I don't speak to them anymore because of this!"
And whilst that may be somewhat true - the reality is that your inner child inside of you is craving and desiring their love, affection, attention and acceptance.
This is why inner child work is so important when facing the reality of your current and past situation - it is here, that the groundwork can really amplify and take you through it, rather...
When the Devil becomes your ally, you wouldn't even question the darkness.
When the Devil becomes your ally, you see them as your best friend.
When the Devil becomes your ally, you know you're moving and have shifted to your next level.
When the Devil becomes your friend, not your foe... reality shifts beyond measure.
When the Devil becomes your deepest reflection you transform your reality at the most underground of cores that takes root in the depths not many dare to go.
They see it is a scary.
They see it as evil.
They see it as low vibration that should be steered away from with a ten foot barge pole.
Yet, most do not know, that the most powerful energy, comes from the darkest of depths, if you know how to travel them and return with more power and sense of self that some try, but never reach.
Creation was born in blood, sweat and tears. (Intimacy with a lover, is all of these in deep creation of a Being)
Creation was born in...
5 Tips in Using Your Intuition to Streamline Your Time and Stay in the Flow
Staying in the flow may bring a few huh's? to people's faces and sometimes it is hard to describe it and say exactly what it is.
Yet, the more you choose to listen to your intuition and follow it, the stronger it gets.
I have talked numerous times about Intuition being a muscle and being like running a marathon - you don't just go run a marathon without training, well, you can do anything you want, yet without training for that marathon, you may tear a muscle or hurt yourself... you probably won't do that with practising your Intuition - yet the point here, is that every time you listen and follow through with your Intuition, THAT muscle get's stronger.
It isn't that your Intuition isn't there and you have to grow it. No. Not at all.
Every single person on this planet has it, it is that innate knowing deep inside you, that consciousness that you make decisions from.
That thread that runs through all of...
5 Quick Tips to tell if you're carrying someone's energy and what to do about it:
1 - All of a sudden emotions change without a real definite/immediate trigger and you’ve been feeling awesome before for quite a time. Learn to follow the 'thread'.
2 - “Stories” out of control. It is really hard to get out of your head and your mind is constantly running about all things black and white and all in between. Basically you are feeling like a crazy person and wondering wtf is going on! When you feel stuff - anything - your mind will ALWAYS try and figure out what it is your are feeling - analyse, yet, this will drive you insane, because your mind will only be drawing on similar feelings from your past/body memory and attaching these stories to them when ultimately all that you need to do is to train yourself to learn how to feel without analysing everything you feel so you can move through it, rather than being victim to it.
3 - Can’t stop yourself from behaviours...
Past lives, wounds, beliefs & carried realities...
We are at a point now, as we come into balance of finding your truth, speaking your truth, or not, learning how to ride the waves and taking responsibility and ownership of behaviours, patterns and 'shadows' that have been around for way longer than centuries.
Whether you believe in Past Lives or not, the reality is that everything is energy and time and space do not really exist, there is only this present moment right now and whatever 'spiderweb' you are carrying from somewhere in your past, is what we will be living and playing out.
Until you become conscious of it and it shifts, it disintegrates and you create a new reality.
It can be a-likened to stepping into a vortex - yes you create your own reality, yet, there is past stuff there, webs, entangled from every inch and era of your past, that you are somehow still entwined with and this shows up in your reality until you become conscious (darkness to light, shadow...
You are not separate from any of it...
When Conscious of Your Connection you are conscious of your Source and in your consciousness of your Source - well, you see there is no separation from any part of it - nothing on this Earth, any other planet or any other galaxy or star system - nothing is separate and you...
You are all of it.
You can be it all and not be affected by any part of it all at the same time.
When you are affected by a part of it, by an aspect of your reality - you have deeply, deeply separated yourself from it. Separated yourself from, yourself. Separated yourself, from who you are.
For in your separation lies the pain.
And in the pain, is your beacon back to Source - back to your consciousness of the connection of the Source - which then instantly, reminds you - that you are not separate of that = YOU ARE THAT.
Your pain is showing you your separation.
Your pain is showing you where you have disconnected from...
Don't you realise that it's all Light? Don't you realise your power to transform it RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR EYES? You don't need to turn away, you don't need to run - because that? Is exactly what they want you to do.
The Devil. The Shadow. The Darkness. Don't you realise that it is your perception of it - is what you SEE?
The Dark, or the Light.
The Shadow, or the Light.
The Devil, or the Angel.
What does each make you feel?
Don't you understand that you hold such a powerful vibration - that it transforms right in front of you??
Don't you understand that your turning away from it, your running away from it, your feeling sick from it and turning your back to ONLY face the Light - is exactly what they want you to do?
DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR JOB DEAR LIGHTWORKER IS TO LOOK AT IT DIRECTLY IN THE FACE AND IT TRANSFORM RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU? BECAUSE YOU ARE IT???
Not to feel sick from it.
Not to turn away from it.
Not to not face...