I get so agitated when I hear people saying 'they're just stuck in victim consciousness' ffs people really?!
What they're really saying is that:
What is ACTUALLY going on here when I hear people calling others a 'victim' is that:
I would frequently say to Adaya at our old house, as we would stand out in the front yard on the road, as we watched the last rays of sunlight trickle down behind the houses - our next home, I want to be able to see the Sunrise and Sunset with no obstruction of houses.
Low and behold... that is exactly what we have now. (That building you can see in the picture, is horse stables ).
Almost every afternoon, I stand out the front and watch the glory of this, as I sun gaze deeply and allow those beautiful VitaminD rays into my eyes and standing in the deep, deep gratitude of this wide, wide open space, above me, all around me, into the hills as far as I can see.
There are a few houses here and there, but nothing like crammed suburbia where I spent 8 years of Adaya's youngest youth and the biggest transformation from the darkest pot holes in my Heart to - BECOMING my Heart.
As it nears almost three months being in this home now, I can feel I am really...
TROUBLED TEENAGERS (And Children!)
I have been getting many, many questions about this topic and it is time I spoke about this! I am feeling called to debunk A TONNE of myths about this topic AND give you tools to support you to return the sacred peaceful bond to your teenager and pre-teen (and child!) asap!
If you can't make the livestream and have questions or issues with this topic, please comment below and I will answer them live. We will cover (plus more!):
(All of this applies to your young child too - did you know that 99% of all teenager 'problems' starts before they are 3 years old?! Don't worry, your teenager is not 'not fixable' you just have to know how to approach it)
~ Teenagers who are lost, depressed, won't talk to you, won't open up to you and do the opposite of everything you ask
~ Teenagers who are so lazy and won't get off their device/screen and you are wondering what on Earth is going to change that
~ You can see they are struggling with the World...
"But I've spent thousands of dollars and it didn't work!"
"Not with me you haven't." I replied.
It doesn't matter if you spend a little or a lot...
What does matter - is the person who is holding the space for you to transform.
I have had many, many people over the years come to me and say that 'psychologists don't work, doctors don't work, no body, not even other healers can figure out what is wrong with me' and yet, again, it depends on the practitioner that is holding space for you to transform.
Anybody can train to become anybody from a book/class.
But how deep are they going within their own transformational growth journey? THAT is the key you want to be looking for.
The best healers, guide you to connecting to your own inner health, inner wealth and inner life purpose.
No body can do that for you.
It is like when I teach Lightfilled Yoga, I ask if there are any new people to my class and give them a disclaimer. If you don't like...
Boundaries, Empaths & Their Families
The hardest thing to do for a Highly Sensitive Empath is set boundaries - with their families!
Of course, setting boundaries to start with at all is tricky, feels uncomfortable and not normal!
However, the hardest thing a highly sensitive empath that is breaking the chain of abuse, emotional turmoil and the generational patterns of everything that hasn't been in true alignment - is setting boundaries with the ones they love!
Now, you might think, 'Oh, I actually don't love them anymore with how much they have hurt me! I don't speak to them anymore because of this!"
And whilst that may be somewhat true - the reality is that your inner child inside of you is craving and desiring their love, affection, attention and acceptance.
This is why inner child work is so important when facing the reality of your current and past situation - it is here, that the groundwork can really amplify and take you through it, rather...
When the Devil becomes your ally, you wouldn't even question the darkness.
When the Devil becomes your ally, you see them as your best friend.
When the Devil becomes your ally, you know you're moving and have shifted to your next level.
When the Devil becomes your friend, not your foe... reality shifts beyond measure.
When the Devil becomes your deepest reflection you transform your reality at the most underground of cores that takes root in the depths not many dare to go.
They see it is a scary.
They see it as evil.
They see it as low vibration that should be steered away from with a ten foot barge pole.
Yet, most do not know, that the most powerful energy, comes from the darkest of depths, if you know how to travel them and return with more power and sense of self that some try, but never reach.
Creation was born in blood, sweat and tears. (Intimacy with a lover, is all of these in deep creation of a Being)
Creation was born in...
5 Tips in Using Your Intuition to Streamline Your Time and Stay in the Flow
Staying in the flow may bring a few huh's? to people's faces and sometimes it is hard to describe it and say exactly what it is.
Yet, the more you choose to listen to your intuition and follow it, the stronger it gets.
I have talked numerous times about Intuition being a muscle and being like running a marathon - you don't just go run a marathon without training, well, you can do anything you want, yet without training for that marathon, you may tear a muscle or hurt yourself... you probably won't do that with practising your Intuition - yet the point here, is that every time you listen and follow through with your Intuition, THAT muscle get's stronger.
It isn't that your Intuition isn't there and you have to grow it. No. Not at all.
Every single person on this planet has it, it is that innate knowing deep inside you, that consciousness that you make decisions from.
That thread that runs through all of...
5 Quick Tips to tell if you're carrying someone's energy and what to do about it:
1 - All of a sudden emotions change without a real definite/immediate trigger and you’ve been feeling awesome before for quite a time. Learn to follow the 'thread'.
2 - “Stories” out of control. It is really hard to get out of your head and your mind is constantly running about all things black and white and all in between. Basically you are feeling like a crazy person and wondering wtf is going on! When you feel stuff - anything - your mind will ALWAYS try and figure out what it is your are feeling - analyse, yet, this will drive you insane, because your mind will only be drawing on similar feelings from your past/body memory and attaching these stories to them when ultimately all that you need to do is to train yourself to learn how to feel without analysing everything you feel so you can move through it, rather than being victim to it.
3 - Can’t stop yourself from behaviours...
Past lives, wounds, beliefs & carried realities...
We are at a point now, as we come into balance of finding your truth, speaking your truth, or not, learning how to ride the waves and taking responsibility and ownership of behaviours, patterns and 'shadows' that have been around for way longer than centuries.
Whether you believe in Past Lives or not, the reality is that everything is energy and time and space do not really exist, there is only this present moment right now and whatever 'spiderweb' you are carrying from somewhere in your past, is what we will be living and playing out.
Until you become conscious of it and it shifts, it disintegrates and you create a new reality.
It can be a-likened to stepping into a vortex - yes you create your own reality, yet, there is past stuff there, webs, entangled from every inch and era of your past, that you are somehow still entwined with and this shows up in your reality until you become conscious (darkness to light, shadow...