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"But I've spent thousands of dollars and it didn't work!" 

"Not with me you haven't." I replied. 

It doesn't matter if you spend a little or a lot... 

What does matter - is the person who is holding the space for you to transform. 

I have had many, many people over the years come to me and say that 'psychologists don't work, doctors don't work, no body, not even other healers can figure out what is wrong with me' and yet, again, it depends on the practitioner that is holding space for you to transform. 

Anybody can train to become anybody from a book/class. 

But how deep are they going within their own transformational growth journey? THAT is the key you want to be looking for. 

The best healers, guide you to connecting to your own inner health, inner wealth and inner life purpose. 

No body can do that for you.

It is like when I teach Lightfilled Yoga, I ask if there are any new people to my class and give them a disclaimer. If you don't like...

It's not a matter of IF or HOPE - it is a matter of CHOOSING it to be this way.

It seems that so many client conversations in this last week I kept sharing the same advice - it isn't a matter of IF or HOPE - but you have to choose that it will be successful and there is no other way! 

It isn't easy stepping out of the norm and following your Heart and Soul's Passion - but when you KNOW there is no other option (well of course there is right?!) - but you CHOOSE no other option than to MAKE it work - you make it happen - NO MATTER WHAT! 

In the start and at times along the journey - usually every time you up-level:

You WILL come across naysayers that talk you out of your dreams. Walk away from them and don't share your dreams with them. 

You WILL come across people who tear you down because of the way you are living your life. Walk away from them and don't connect with them.

You WILL encounter tough times, hard situations that make you question and doubt EVERYTHING...

I took this photo before I left, when clarity reigned and I felt deeply at peace about what needs to be done and get back home to do it. Yet, the reality of being back here has hit me hard.

I didn't want to come back. And it was quite phenomenal when I had made the decision to leave - not even packed up - this was 3 days prior to leaving - our parrot, Alex, who, had not been in his carry crate since we arrived, yet it was always open on his table (as he has a portable perch and is just 'out' all the time) - I made the decision to leave and... I walked inside and he had climbed into his carry crate. So amazing how much animals feel. I hadn't even voiced it to anyone yet at that time! 

It was... pretty special, travelling with our animals - that... if it wasn't for the storms, some animals would've been baby sat/in the kennels, that.. this trip showed me how we can ALL go and that.. was pretty special. 

This trip, showed me so much. Clarity is definitely one of them! 

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Boundaries, Empaths & Their Families

The hardest thing to do for a Highly Sensitive Empath is set boundaries - with their families! 

Of course, setting boundaries to start with at all is tricky, feels uncomfortable and not normal! 

However, the hardest thing a highly sensitive empath that is breaking the chain of abuse, emotional turmoil and the generational patterns of everything that hasn't been in true alignment - is setting boundaries with the ones they love! 

Now, you might think, 'Oh, I actually don't love them anymore with how much they have hurt me! I don't speak to them anymore because of this!"

And whilst that may be somewhat true - the reality is that your inner child inside of you is craving and desiring their love, affection, attention and acceptance. 

This is why inner child work is so important when facing the reality of your current and past situation - it is here, that the groundwork can really amplify and take you through it, rather...

When the Devil becomes your ally, you wouldn't even question the darkness. 

When the Devil becomes your ally, you see them as your best friend. 

When the Devil becomes your ally, you know you're moving and have shifted to your next level. 

When the Devil becomes your friend, not your foe... reality shifts beyond measure. 

When the Devil becomes your deepest reflection you transform your reality at the most underground of cores that takes root in the depths not many dare to go. 

They see it is a scary. 

They see it as evil. 

They see it as low vibration that should be steered away from with a ten foot barge pole. 

Yet, most do not know, that the most powerful energy, comes from the darkest of depths, if you know how to travel them and return with more power and sense of self that some try, but never reach. 

Creation was born in blood, sweat and tears. (Intimacy with a lover, is all of these in deep creation of a Being)

Creation was born in...

5 Tips in Using Your Intuition to Streamline Your Time and Stay in the Flow

Staying in the flow may bring a few huh's? to people's faces and sometimes it is hard to describe it and say exactly what it is.

Yet, the more you choose to listen to your intuition and follow it, the stronger it gets. 

I have talked numerous times about Intuition being a muscle and being like running a marathon - you don't just go run a marathon without training, well, you can do anything you want, yet without training for that marathon, you may tear a muscle or hurt yourself... you probably won't do that with practising your Intuition - yet the point here, is that every time you listen and follow through with your Intuition, THAT muscle get's stronger.

It isn't that your Intuition isn't there and you have to grow it. No. Not at all.

Every single person on this planet has it, it is that innate knowing deep inside you, that consciousness that you make decisions from.

That thread that runs through all of...

5 Powerful but Simple Steps to keep your energy high, your focus attuned and your life on track...

1. When you get a thought or idea - do not doubt it. Just do it. Think about it later. If you are unsure, look for the signs, notice what you keep thinking about and...
2. If it is in your energy field - you need to do something about it. Sometimes meditations are NOT ENOUGH to protect your field. If someone is in their emotional stuff, sometimes we need to take other action if they are not listening to your words. We live in a physical world. Physical boundaries, like house fences or Domestic Violence Orders, Parenting Orders, Legal Agreements are needed to protect us. 'Words are powerful, but actions are louder.' If you need to go through some sort of Court process, I always say to my clients, that yeah it is hell and fucked and shit to go through, yet - the sense of Freedom you feel when that document is stamped and in place - is something I cannot describe and you only understand once...